Our Fertility Journey: Episode 7

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Our seventh addition to our new series. This episode takes place from week 18 and 19, straight into the reveal. We look forward to continue documenting and bringing you along with us on our journey.
-The Perkins
Our Reveal video on IG:
Our Announcement video on IG:
Planning & Coordination And Design & Florals
socaleventplanners - socaleventplanners
threepetalsdesign - threepetalsdesign
Desi on YT: uztop.info
Desi on IG: desiperkins
Steven on IG: stevenperkins
Our Fertility Doctor:
Andy Huang, M.D. - Reproductive Partners Medical Group, Inc.
IG: bit.ly/2WDucFB
WEB: bit.ly/3f7RgUd
🎧 Music Used 🎧


  1. Norma Welsh

    Norma Welsh

    Kun oldin

    Hiii :) I am currently expecting and in need of a pregnancy pillow and I remembered that you had mentioned one in this video, do you have a link for which one you got, it looks super comfy.

  2. Travel Drone

    Travel Drone

    2 oy oldin

    Thank you for your wonderful and interesting video, I enjoyed watching 👍

  3. Unlabeled


    2 oy oldin

    What kind of prego pillow did you use? 🤔🤔

  4. Ashok Kadam

    Ashok Kadam

    3 oy oldin


  5. Princess Kayla

    Princess Kayla

    4 oy oldin

    Holy crap, When I made the other comment you were not yet in your bathing suit. Girl, you have not one thing to worry about. If someone is saying anything about you that is because they are super jealous.

  6. Princess Kayla

    Princess Kayla

    4 oy oldin

    To me, you are not too big. You are literally having a very healthy baby that will be healthier than all those skinny bitches babies. Not hating I’m one of the skinny bitches... But, you look amazing pregnant!

  7. denise marie

    denise marie

    5 oy oldin

    The gender reveal is supposed to be a surprise for the parents also... i dont get this.

  8. Morgan kelly

    Morgan kelly

    5 oy oldin

    I don't know why but I feel like it's a boy!! I cannot wait to wait out, this has to be the coolest reveal I've ever seen🥺🤍

  9. Anh Le

    Anh Le

    5 oy oldin

    Screams and goosebumps as the flowers revealed blue 😭😭🥺💙

  10. Siobhan


    5 oy oldin

    Is her husband gay?

  11. Joey Riddle

    Joey Riddle

    5 oy oldin

    That was lovely, intimate and artistic, such a serene gender reveal💙

  12. Kailee


    5 oy oldin

    Omg the chills that I got watching the gender reveal 🥺🥺🥺

  13. Samantha Alcaraz

    Samantha Alcaraz

    5 oy oldin

    Following this journey has made me start to have dreams about me having babies 😩😭

  14. Gisselle Garza

    Gisselle Garza

    5 oy oldin

    I literally got chills! This is such a unique and beautiful gender reveal, love you guys ❤️

  15. Morgan Isabella

    Morgan Isabella

    5 oy oldin

    HOW I GOT PREGNANT.. I have been married since 9 years without any child. My Fallopian tubes was blocked I tried everything possible to get pregnant nothing was working. I visited so may hospital's my problem never seems to end I lost hope and feel depress. One faithful day I start checking online on how to get pregnant in the comment section people were testifying about how they get result with Dr Ebhota.. I was surprised about the testimony and I decided to approach him about my own issue after talking to him he said I need some medication from him after I got the medication from him I got pregnant and gave birth. If you want to talk to Dr Ebhota contact him on WhatsApp+2349036317149 or email him drebhota123456@gmail.com Dr

  16. Beautiful Mixed Kids

    Beautiful Mixed Kids

    6 oy oldin

    This guy is so fruity in the booty. He’s got sugar in his tank 🤣🤣

  17. Jen Belanger

    Jen Belanger

    6 oy oldin

    this is the cutest (and safest) gender reveal ive seen. I love this! I totally cried bc of how beautiful this was. I am very happy for both of you.

  18. Whatwhatwhat


    6 oy oldin

    I think a lot of bilinguals including me learn two languages and forget words in both languages lol

  19. celeste ahouma

    celeste ahouma

    6 oy oldin

    wooow that gender reveals was BEAUTIFULL and normally I dont even care about gender reveals ❤

  20. celeste ahouma

    celeste ahouma

    6 oy oldin

    the way she stood up 'u mean the dream where u were cheating on me? 🤣🤣 'pregnancy dreams are like watching a soap opera'

  21. kandie monterroso

    kandie monterroso

    6 oy oldin

    This reveal was AMAZING!!!! By far my favorite gender reveal from all the gender reveals out there !!!!! Good job Steven!! You guys deserve this happiness and bundle of joy! Congratulations, you guys are officially parents! 👨‍👩‍👦 welcome to parenthood . Stay safe!

  22. Lauren Bradley

    Lauren Bradley

    6 oy oldin

    Desi, you have the most beautiful and intricate video designs and you execute them so perfectly. Your reveal couldn't be more perfect and all I kept saying aloud is how beautiful it was. Congrats on your sweetest addition❤ [Also I know as I comment this, you've just had your little one so I want to say a huge congrats to you both. You are going to be amazing parents!]

  23. Demetry Melanie

    Demetry Melanie

    6 oy oldin

    A boy? 😊

  24. Amina Mohamad

    Amina Mohamad

    6 oy oldin


  25. Ruth Mont

    Ruth Mont

    6 oy oldin

    Omg that reveal was one of my favorite ever...and I love that movie Pleasantville so it made it even more amazing

  26. Kristen Savage

    Kristen Savage

    6 oy oldin

    Omg!! This is BY FAR, the CUTEST gender reveal everrr!! Live u DESI girlll!!! Xoxo

  27. Becky Romero

    Becky Romero

    6 oy oldin

    Omg I’m at 21:49!! I think it’s a boy but ahhh, idk 😭😭😭 22:47 OMGG ITS A BOY 🥺😭😭😆

  28. Eve Glemfessions

    Eve Glemfessions

    7 oy oldin

    I love you you have become an inspiration for me and don’t ever pay attention to the negativity people say they need to mind they’re own damn business your doing great love 💕

  29. Nicki Iasimone

    Nicki Iasimone

    7 oy oldin

    Omg finally made it to end I GOT GOOSEBUMPSS

  30. Nicki Iasimone

    Nicki Iasimone

    7 oy oldin

    Taste of metal is probably low iron . If you want to chew on ice that’s another symptom of low iron. It’s very common during pregnancy. Happened with my last baby!

  31. Anis Khan

    Anis Khan

    7 oy oldin


  32. Anis Khan

    Anis Khan

    7 oy oldin

    Indian call me

  33. may may

    may may

    7 oy oldin

    I got goosebumps eventhough I already know what you're having...that was the most original reveal..and you guys didn't cause a massive fire! Yay!! 💙💙💙💙

  34. Bali


    7 oy oldin

    i feel like with these vlogs theyve made their own reality tv show. so cool

  35. Laporsche La Belle

    Laporsche La Belle

    7 oy oldin

    Love 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  36. Loredana Manciu

    Loredana Manciu

    7 oy oldin

    Such a cool idea! Lovely garden!

  37. NESSA T


    8 oy oldin

    I knew it they exposed it in the last video

  38. Rhonda Edwards

    Rhonda Edwards

    8 oy oldin

    Most amazing baby reveal ever!

  39. Queen Alondra

    Queen Alondra

    8 oy oldin

    I fricking new it is a boy!

  40. Keeping Life Flowing

    Keeping Life Flowing

    8 oy oldin


  41. Joy Joy

    Joy Joy

    8 oy oldin

    U look amazing and healthy feed that baby gurl have a 8 lb baby boy

  42. Joy Joy

    Joy Joy

    8 oy oldin

    Just a thought being a medical person keep cell phones iPad computers devices away from ur belly they do emit radiation even iPad warns about radiation emitted woman I know doctors bought a belly shield electromagnetic shield better safety first radiation damages dna and rapidly dividing cells are more vulnerable my doctor and staff told me about one food for thought want to pass it on to u guys protect ur lil precious bundle of joy!

  43. Agatha D

    Agatha D

    8 oy oldin

    Sooooooooo much goosebumps seeing this 😭😭💙💙💙💙

  44. Mandy Jo

    Mandy Jo

    8 oy oldin

    Oh my goodness, that was beautiful, just melted my heart 💓 god bless you both, so happy for you 💖

  45. Kacy Mah

    Kacy Mah

    8 oy oldin

    Steven is an attentive husband in general, but during the pregnancy he's been so much more, it's so sweet to see in your vlogs. Also cried like a baby during their gender reveal - I'm so happy for y'all 😭😩😍

  46. Colipopkola


    8 oy oldin

    The gender reveal was so good! So beautiful! 💙💙💙 I can't remember my gender guess I had when you did the Perkins produce video..I shed some tears lol. I think its awesome you, Steven and your mom are all gonna be teaching the baby English and Spanish! 💖

  47. Elizabeth Nelson

    Elizabeth Nelson

    9 oy oldin

    Haha the reveal was perfect!

  48. Kristina McKeaver

    Kristina McKeaver

    9 oy oldin

    That was the most beautiful and perfect gender reveal I've ever seen... just... wow. So happy for you both. I've cried every single episode!

  49. Maricela Beltran

    Maricela Beltran

    9 oy oldin

    Bilingüe school for you kids

  50. Azia C - Millenial Money

    Azia C - Millenial Money

    9 oy oldin

    Yas to the donation of black lives matter !!! Love this

  51. Gentle-Storm Wyatt

    Gentle-Storm Wyatt

    9 oy oldin

    I’m all late but that reveal was so 🥺🥺😭😭😭🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽

  52. Caty Gondeiro

    Caty Gondeiro

    9 oy oldin

    What kind of drone does Steven have??? This shot is absolutely perfect 💗

  53. Jamie Garcia

    Jamie Garcia

    9 oy oldin

    I love the Steven is so into learning Spanish for you and the baby that’s so beautiful be involved in your culture and what will be your baby’s culture



    9 oy oldin

    Omg I’m so happy for you I just watched meet out pets and saw you miscarried broke my heart ... so I decided to look you guys up wow what a shock to see but I’m SO happy for you guys xoxox this is crazy times were in ... bringing a child into this world is scary with everything going on but it’s a good way to keep busy for the next 18 years LOL congrats u guys

  55. Lexie Nguyen

    Lexie Nguyen

    9 oy oldin

    Just saw it again and still makes me cry the moment where the drone is shooting , such a magical moment 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  56. Dulce Amaya

    Dulce Amaya

    9 oy oldin

    As soon as I saw the color I started screaming, crying, and jumping up and down from the happiness. I knew from the beginning that it was gonna be a boy. Congratulations Dezi and Steven. I love you guys a lot. I'm so happy for them.

  57. Elida Espinoza

    Elida Espinoza

    9 oy oldin

    Watching this for the millionth time bc the revel at the end was so beautiful and I cry every time 😭😭😭

  58. T Sdz

    T Sdz

    9 oy oldin

    definitely think its a girl

  59. Taylor Rae

    Taylor Rae

    9 oy oldin

    What app does she use?

  60. Shenae Kramer

    Shenae Kramer

    9 oy oldin

    I am so thankful for your sharing of your journey. I am also going through this hell called infertility. Our next step is IVF & unfortunately financially it’s just not possible for us at this point. You have given me hope & have been a light through this dark time.. ❤️

  61. Genlovee


    9 oy oldin

    Honestly you guys left me speechless with the end 💙 I am so happy for you guys!!! May God continue to send blessing to your home and family 💙🏡 I am here for all of it !!!

  62. Sunny Days

    Sunny Days

    9 oy oldin

    I knew it! Everybody i know is pregnant and is getting this sex too.

  63. Mariah Kelly

    Mariah Kelly

    9 oy oldin

    Why did I tear up when you were planting the mango tree!! So happy for you guys!

  64. VidaDeVee


    9 oy oldin

    Does anyone know what Spanish book it is that Desi was using?

  65. Alana Mosheim

    Alana Mosheim

    9 oy oldin

    Always be cALM

  66. Suzanne O'Donnell

    Suzanne O'Donnell

    10 oy oldin

    Stunning! Absolutely stunning! I don’t think I have ever cried so hard for a stranger in my life. Congratulations to you both. You truly are blessed. Boys are the BEST! I have two of my own. 💙💙

  67. Melissa V

    Melissa V

    10 oy oldin

    I was always asked why my belly wasn’t growing and I thought something was wrong so I KNOW what you mean!! But your belly is perfect and that bundle of joy is too and that’s ALL that matters!! 🙌🏼

  68. Krys Ramos

    Krys Ramos

    10 oy oldin

    You said “his” at 10:38

  69. luvnkase4


    10 oy oldin

    How did I miss out on this revel 😫 I was two vlogs ahead like “how are they so confident it’s a boy?!?” And I go back searching and here it is 🥰 dang it! I’m slacking anyways I’m so happy!! I didn’t even get a chance to guess in my head

  70. G Vibin

    G Vibin

    10 oy oldin

    Such a beautiful reveal!!

  71. Brianna M

    Brianna M

    10 oy oldin

    This gender reveal was so perfect and like nothing I have ever seen before so amazing 😭❤️❤️

  72. Brianna M

    Brianna M

    10 oy oldin

    “ she has to cuddle with me at that point their is nothing she can do about it “ 😩😭❤️❤️

  73. Desiree Jones

    Desiree Jones

    10 oy oldin

    I’m watching this late but dm Catherine from the ACE family. There is a field of flowers somewhere they took pictures

  74. Leslie Hernandez

    Leslie Hernandez

    10 oy oldin

    Women who are naturally petite always have their belly showing the earliest. Idk why people can’t comprehend that. Like skinny mama, means you’re gonna see that belly as soon as it starts to grow 🙄



    10 oy oldin

    You guys are the cutest speaking Spanish 😭 greatest parents already 👨‍👩‍👦

  76. Brenda B

    Brenda B

    10 oy oldin

    I’m super new to your channel. Came across your pregnancy journey and couldn’t stop watching. I have to tell you that you are such a hero and true super women to be willing to share such a very personal experience. I’ve cried and laughed along with you. I’m a mother of a 19 year old daughter. She was not planned and was 7 weeks premature. My true blessing and my curse. LOL. Well worth it. Congratulations on your journey!

  77. Mrs. J

    Mrs. J

    10 oy oldin

    It’s nice to see really genuine sweet people in these days. Congratulations God bless.

  78. Your Beauty Routine

    Your Beauty Routine

    10 oy oldin

    When the drone goes above them and they slowly reveal the color....it was so unbelievably breathtaking that I said out loud to myself “ARE YOU KIDDING ME WITH THIS” 😭😭😭😭 soooooo stunning 😭

  79. Cynthya Rivera

    Cynthya Rivera

    10 oy oldin

    😭😭 Im not crying 💙💙💙

  80. Drama Hater

    Drama Hater

    10 oy oldin

    I don’t know if you have one, but a body pillow was a life saver for me when I was pregnant. I’m a side-sleeper. It really helped. I’m over-the-moon happy for you!

  81. knmannie


    10 oy oldin

    I had already seen the reveal and I agree with everyone, definitely still cried seeing it again in the vid! Soo incredibly happy for you and excited to see the rest of your pregnancy and your journey into parenthood!

  82. Sophia Bryce

    Sophia Bryce

    10 oy oldin

    Anyone else crying or is that just me?

  83. Jenna June

    Jenna June

    10 oy oldin

    The reveal was amazing. It gave me chills & made me tear up immediately. I am a mom to 3 of the gender you’re having. Never imagined having only one sex, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

  84. Sam Thomas

    Sam Thomas

    10 oy oldin


  85. Alayeh Panda

    Alayeh Panda

    10 oy oldin

    Omgg the best gender reveal eveeeeerrr

  86. Mj Shols

    Mj Shols

    10 oy oldin

    Big congratulations guys I am so happy for you ...God bless your entire family ...who thumbs down a video like this ...I just caaant understand

  87. Gigi 99

    Gigi 99

    10 oy oldin

    Desi. I was three months preggers but looked like 5. Who cares? I loved every second of both my pregnancies. Loved it. Enjoy it to the max. 💋

  88. crystal E

    crystal E

    10 oy oldin

    This is the most honest infertility journey I have seen . It was really eye opening. Thanks for sharing with us!

  89. nurit cheber

    nurit cheber

    10 oy oldin

    You look beautiful gorgeous I'm so happy for the 2 of you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  90. nessesity


    10 oy oldin

    Congratulations! So happy for you!!!! I have been following you for YEARS! And so excited to have been following your fertility journey! I’m actually preggo with my 3rd. I absolutely love your white top! I wanted to ask if you’d mind sharing where you got it from? Tysm!!! Can’t wait to see your next video!!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕

  91. Faith Jimenez

    Faith Jimenez

    10 oy oldin

    I got those comments all the time!! "Are you sure you aren't having twins??" "Wow ur really big!!" "Hey fatty how you doing?" Oh girl I've gotten it all. I came to the realization that if they wanna be rude imma just be rude back so I started saying that's funny cuz I dont remember asking for ur opinion. Girl ur growing a baby so you do u girl!! Dont let it ruin ur day and dont care about what they think. They dont know you. Ur beautiful and u look absolutely gorgeous pregnant ❤❤❤

  92. Brittany Zermeno

    Brittany Zermeno

    10 oy oldin

    Y’all look so cute when y’all are reading about the 19th week 😂❤️

  93. Grace Jung

    Grace Jung

    10 oy oldin

    I had a “small” baby bump for my pregnancies and people were saying... “You’re really small. Are you sure the baby is okay? Is the baby growing consistently?” I remember going to my dr appts and constantly asking if I’m too small. Both of my babies were born 7lbs and some ounces, which is average! Don’t listen to other outside perspectives... only who you trust and feel comfortable with. You know you’re body best and you know you’re doing the best you can for you and baby. Congrats and love seeing your journey to parenthood with your hubby! 😊

    • Laura Sharp

      Laura Sharp

      9 oy oldin

      Why do people think it’s okay to say things like that to a pregnant woman?! Smh. Love to you and your healthy babies.

  94. Olga Bernhardt

    Olga Bernhardt

    10 oy oldin

    OMG!! Gorgeous!! I got major goosebumps and cried watching the reveal. Absolutely beautiful!! I'm so so happy for you both. What a blessing!!

  95. OneSlyFamily


    10 oy oldin

    We are vlogging the same journey but on a poor persons budget. 😂 check us out.

  96. Karen


    10 oy oldin

    So emotional watching this reveal!! I knew it was going to be a boy!!! Congratulations to you both

  97. Alyssa Jamerson

    Alyssa Jamerson

    10 oy oldin

    I love how enthusiastic he is to do anything for you, y'all are gonna be the best parents!!

  98. leah lebeau

    leah lebeau

    10 oy oldin

    Yayyyy so happy! That reveal was beautiful & so cool!!!

  99. Gabbi De Hoyos

    Gabbi De Hoyos

    10 oy oldin

    I think boy 💙

  100. Kolour Gen

    Kolour Gen

    10 oy oldin

    💙💙💙when Desi said she craved tomatoes, I immediately said BOY!!! 💙✨