Our Fertility Journey: Episode 11

Week 30 Update. Nursery Planning and 4D Ultra Sound
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First Look Sonogram - 4D Ultrasound Redondo Beach, Ca
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Steven on IG: stevenperkins
Our Fertility Doctor:
Andy Huang, M.D. - Reproductive Partners Medical Group, Inc.
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  1. Paige Maddy

    Paige Maddy

    2 oy oldin

    When Steven pulled you to the bathroom, I almost peed myself from laughing so hard 😂😂😂😂

  2. Rgaya Al A

    Rgaya Al A

    2 oy oldin

    Steven is a supermannnnn, when he FLEW through the house to get you that blanket and then dragged you to the bathroom!! Its true what they say, not all heroes wear capes 🦸🏻‍♂️

  3. Jordan


    2 oy oldin

    Omg at 16:17 you can hear Desis mom say “that’s not yours that’s for Ocean” 🥰

  4. Azaylea Tovar

    Azaylea Tovar

    2 oy oldin

    I want you guys to be my parents!!!!! omg. the cpr classes, man you guys inspire to be a better mom, (not that im a bad mom) but to pay attention to details...✨💞

  5. Kianna Perez

    Kianna Perez

    2 oy oldin

    me rewatching this months later to only realize at 16:19 your mom says baby oceans name 👁👄👁

  6. Haley Okk

    Haley Okk

    3 oy oldin

    I’m dying, the almost peeing yourself incident. That was pretty smart of hubby, or he coulda got a container for you to pee in haha 😂😍

  7. Izabela Scaunas

    Izabela Scaunas

    4 oy oldin

    The security footage is GOLD 😂😍



    4 oy oldin

    i love rewatching these vlogs! idk if you guys had already announced his name when this was posted.... tia said his name! lol

  9. Shirley V

    Shirley V

    5 oy oldin

    Omg I couldn’t stop laughing almost peed myself lolllll

  10. myasia morales

    myasia morales

    5 oy oldin

    ugh she has the most perfect family, i love how their all so supportive and cute lol i love her wela and mom 😞😞

  11. Karen C

    Karen C

    5 oy oldin

    i haven’t laughed that hard in a while 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  12. Cassie Williams

    Cassie Williams

    5 oy oldin

    Most definitely got teary when you guys were learning CPR. I can’t even imagine having to do that

  13. Shay z

    Shay z

    5 oy oldin

    The blanket pulling was funny 🤣

  14. Kel_Betona


    6 oy oldin

    7:15 I lol'ed so hard 😂

  15. celeste ahouma

    celeste ahouma

    6 oy oldin

    so cute even the dog was helping out. that baby will be in good hands 🤣🤣

  16. Victoria Hartwell

    Victoria Hartwell

    6 oy oldin

    This was the funniest episode

  17. Amber McFadden

    Amber McFadden

    6 oy oldin

    I am DEAD at that footage🤣🤣🤣

  18. Lily Quintanilla

    Lily Quintanilla

    6 oy oldin

    “let’s keep that away from Charlie” ❤️❤️

  19. It’s Mari’s Life

    It’s Mari’s Life

    6 oy oldin

    Who else is watching the fertility episodes again after seeing that Desi is in labor right now !!! ☺️☺️☺️

  20. Neah Marie

    Neah Marie

    6 oy oldin

    Stevens dad Brain is like activated 1000x before any bbies I love lmao

  21. Dee Castillo

    Dee Castillo

    6 oy oldin

    "That's my donut" lmao. Love that u guys r soooo real! Great job on blanket pulling Steven!

  22. Lauren Krysta

    Lauren Krysta

    6 oy oldin

    I LOVE that you guys did baby CPR classes, and especially that you shared with all of us!! Sooo important and all families with newborns should do this!

  23. Sabrina Alaniz

    Sabrina Alaniz

    6 oy oldin

    Omg Steven is so smart for the blanket😂😂😂😂

  24. Sabrina Alaniz

    Sabrina Alaniz

    6 oy oldin

    “That’s insane, you look so beautiful” awwww!!!!😫😫😫💛💛💛💛

  25. Linda Lee

    Linda Lee

    7 oy oldin

    Omg. Steven is the best!!!! The footage of Steven running to grab the blanket and dragging you to the bathroom 😂😂

  26. Raquel vazquez

    Raquel vazquez

    7 oy oldin

    It was the blanket pulling across the floor for me!! 😂😂😂😍

  27. Stephanie Raya

    Stephanie Raya

    7 oy oldin

    I loved the pee in my pants footage😂

  28. ines henriquez

    ines henriquez

    7 oy oldin

    Hi guys does anyone know what app/program that was she was using to put the photos together ? 💜

  29. Maria Zamora

    Maria Zamora

    7 oy oldin

    Baby is beautiful we cannot wait to meet him you will both be such great parents and Grandma Patti will bethebest❤️

  30. Dorian Yohanny

    Dorian Yohanny

    7 oy oldin

    You guys need a reality show 😂😭

  31. Melody’s World And Family

    Melody’s World And Family

    7 oy oldin

    That’s the same place I went to 9 years ago to find out I was going to have a daughter 😩

  32. Brianna Rios

    Brianna Rios

    7 oy oldin

    Steven:You’re good? (Pulls you as fast as he can) Desi: No I’m about to pee my pants 😂😂😂😂 I love y’all!! Can’t wait for baby P! ❤️

  33. Karina Xiomara

    Karina Xiomara

    7 oy oldin

    Steven running to get the blanket oh my gosh my heart 🥺🥺🥺💗

  34. Mileena Cabrera

    Mileena Cabrera

    7 oy oldin

    what’s the app you used to layout all those photos to design the room?

  35. AshleyNoSwiper


    7 oy oldin

    So freaking cute I love this

  36. Queen Bee

    Queen Bee

    7 oy oldin

    I just want to say thank you Desi and Steven for taking us on this special journey with you, and allowing us to share such an incredibly precious time in your life, it’s such an honour and a privilege. I’m so happy for you both xx

  37. Queen Bee

    Queen Bee

    7 oy oldin

    I just want to say thank you Desi and Steven for taking us on this special journey with you, and allowing us to share such an incredibly precious time in your life, it’s such an honour and a privilege. I’m so happy for you both xx

  38. Deanna Vasquez

    Deanna Vasquez

    7 oy oldin

    Steven is husband GOALS I never seen someone run so fast that was so funny 😂

  39. Katy Rojas

    Katy Rojas

    7 oy oldin

    Steven wins dad of a lifetime like uhhhh if you can’t be a Steven I don’t want it

  40. pattii garcia

    pattii garcia

    7 oy oldin

    Omg Steven haha 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  41. Miss Frias

    Miss Frias

    7 oy oldin

    Oh my God! I never get tired saying that you two are life goals! The love is so beautiful. The way Steven takes care of you is so beautiful! The blanket incident was awesome & Charlie wanting to help momma too. Beautiful 😍😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ God Bless you and your beautiful family.

  42. Anamaria Ciocotisan

    Anamaria Ciocotisan

    7 oy oldin

    You guys are so amazing! 🥰😍

  43. Fabiola Graceffa

    Fabiola Graceffa

    7 oy oldin

    Steven is the best husband

  44. Laura Delaney

    Laura Delaney

    7 oy oldin

    Looooove your makeup at 7.50!!

  45. Lucas Oliver

    Lucas Oliver

    7 oy oldin

    Having sex every day even during ovulation will not necessarily increase your chances of getting pregnant. I have been married for 6years now and nothing happen, I tried every way but all to no avail. Nothing that can make you feel more alone or stressed out than trying to conceive, though TTC can feel exhausting, frustrating and lonely. I want to thank God and also doctor Eddymon for putting a smile in my face, I conceive last years after I took the medication dr. Eddymon sent to me. The dr gave my assurance I am going to get pregnant within a month and it happened just the way he said it and now I have a baby of my own. I pray for everyone here looking for fruit of the womb, the same God that did mine will also do yours. In case you have the same problem and want to reach him on WhatsApp +2348128107710 or e-mail doctoreddymon@gmail.com.

  46. Genlovee


    7 oy oldin

    Thank you for being open to share your journey, and bring us along!! I wish you and Steven, and ur home, nothing but blessings and positivity always! May God continue to bless your home Desi ❤️🏡

  47. Dani Halling

    Dani Halling

    7 oy oldin


  48. Samantha Harper

    Samantha Harper

    7 oy oldin

    Desk, first of all I LOVE U AND CONGRATULATIONS! Steven is the best husband for using that rug! So excited for your journey

  49. Cassandra R

    Cassandra R

    7 oy oldin

    currently dying at actual footage! You kow you have the best husband in the world right!!!

  50. Laura Rivera

    Laura Rivera

    7 oy oldin

    I’m I the only one wishing I had Jada when I was pregnant!!! That women is amazing and would have made the process so much easier!

  51. ruksaar


    7 oy oldin

    I want my man to be like steveennnnnnn

  52. ruksaar


    7 oy oldin

    Steven pulling desi across is jussttt sooooo priceless!

  53. Aundrea munro

    Aundrea munro

    7 oy oldin

    I am CRYING at steven pulling you on the blanket. Made my day

  54. Emilia Dodevski

    Emilia Dodevski

    7 oy oldin

    Honestly. ..how can someone press a thumbs down on this video?People are weird.I love it, all about it.Steven and Desi are so cute and already the best parents, work partners, friends ...way to go guys!Your baby is such a lucky little dude.

  55. MrsPokits TheRiot

    MrsPokits TheRiot

    7 oy oldin

    Steven running to grab a blanket to drag you to the bathroom is reminiscent of what I expierenced two weeks ago, except it wasnt him running to go get a blanket to drag me to the bathroom, it was him running to go get a towel believing I may not make it to the hospital in time to deliver. Pregnant with my 4th baby, 37+3wks. All three of my previous deliveries were induced. Never went into spontaneous labour. I realize shit I may actually be in labour. I call my BIL who's like 5mins away to come grab my three toddlers while my husband got dressed. My contractions weren't really close together but 4 days prior baby was breech so they turned him, which had worked, but only for about 12hrs. So although contractions weren't super close, and I was coping decently, we decided to go in a bit earlier so if he was breech again, they could hopefully attempt to turn him again (which they cant do usually if youre very dilated because baby is usually too far into the birth canal). Then right before we walk out the door a contraction hit, and it was way different than before. And I recognized immediately what made it different from the others: I needed to push. I gave my husband a look as soon as it ended and just said "we gotta go NOW" and i quickly started walking to the truck because I didnt wanna terrorize my 3 toddlers by delivering in front of them. So husband ran to grab a towel in case i delivered in the car on the way there which were both kindof shocked i didn't. He said that was the scariest drive of his life. He said the fact that i wasn't telling him to hurry up or go faster and he just heard me quietly muttering prayers to God made him feel like he should either (early in the drive) take me back home because his dad was there who was involved in the 5 home births of his 5 youngest children or just pull over so he could help me deliver instead of being stuck driving. He ended up almost missing the birth because he dropped me off at the door and went to park. Now something many people dont realize is even if youre clenching to hold baby in, after a certain point your body overrides and itll push whether you want it to or not. Ive had this happened with two other delivered baby two I fought the urge for 8mins til my dr came in the room. She got one glove on before she had to catch the baby. No stirrups, no nurses or husband holding my feet, no one counting, no one say "push push push baby is almost here" NOTHING. Im assuming I must have pushed some but I have no conscious memory of it. 99 out of 100 times I poop it takes significantly more effort than delivering baby two. Baby 3 was a bit different. I had no epidural (traditional epidural with my first and "walking" epidural with my second.) I however may have still had some IV pain medicine still working. My dr didn't make it in time to deliver that baby. Took 1.5-2 contraction because it fucking hurt and I kept fighting the pushes. This baby I go no meds, no fluids, no gown, no COVID screening. Im lucky they got my chart opened in time in the computer.

  56. Fox_beauty


    7 oy oldin

    🤣🤣🤣I'm dying laughing at the blanket/bathroom incident. I remember seeing it in the video with Katy...but i hadn't seen this yet...i died!

  57. Louise Sharpy

    Louise Sharpy

    7 oy oldin

    He looks like daddy. Sorry Desi. Ha ha

  58. Lesley R

    Lesley R

    7 oy oldin

    I lost it at Steven pulling Desi!! I’m laughing crying!! Haha and the doggy was trying to help too omg. I love you guys! 💗

  59. Mary Aguirre

    Mary Aguirre

    7 oy oldin

    Catching up on episode 11 before I watch episode 12 🥰🥰🥰

  60. dotty roads

    dotty roads

    7 oy oldin

    I love that Steven is so in love with you that every change of your body is beautiful to him

  61. DYE9


    7 oy oldin

    Hart of Dixie in the bg?! At 1:01? Love that show currently watching it again...

  62. Brandy Mitchell

    Brandy Mitchell

    7 oy oldin

    Omg baby cpr is so important! I had the training before because I work at a daycare and it came in so much handy because my baby went through a little phase where he would choke on his spit up and I have no idea what I would’ve done without it. I feel like every parent should consider the course if they are able to!

  63. lifewithDiiana


    7 oy oldin

    I know there’s always millions of us commenting and the chances of you seeing this is slim. But I’ve followed you for many years now and it’s a cleaning Sunday. No new uploads for me to watch, so I decided to re watch all of your Perkins videos. I just finished watching The Perkins Tuscany Vlog and I can’t even hold in happiness. Because you were telling Steven you wanted him to build you the little grape vine holder (idk what it’s called) that you walked under and talked about how you that was your dream, the rose bushes, basically your own secret garden. Annnd here you are, with a garden that has bloom so beautifully that grew with love as much as that Baby Perkins did. Honestly just so happy for your little growing family! Sending you so much love from AZ! God bless!

  64. Cristina Almeda

    Cristina Almeda

    7 oy oldin

    I love you guys 🙏🏽👶🏻❤️

  65. Veronikah


    7 oy oldin

    Desi “he has my lips “ 👀 your lips have been filled so many times! You mean your old lips? 😂

  66. Arlena Alcantara

    Arlena Alcantara

    7 oy oldin

    So happy Steven got to actually be at a sonogram w. Dezi! 😍🥺😭 Love you guys & God bless! 😘

  67. Kari Orozco

    Kari Orozco

    7 oy oldin

    I love you guys !!! ❤️❤️❤️

  68. Alley Cat

    Alley Cat

    7 oy oldin

    I also went to first look sonogram with my 2 boys 2011 and 2013 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  69. Lauren Cooper

    Lauren Cooper

    7 oy oldin

    I am so happy to see how serious you are taking having a baby. The baby CPR classes is something I wish my husband and I would've done. Had we known it, our baby girl may still be here. Not to be morbid, but honestly i commend you're thoroughnes in preparing to welcome your beautiful gift. Wishing you all the best Perkins!

  70. Sarah Giamoni

    Sarah Giamoni

    7 oy oldin

    i’ve loved following your fertility journey. i’m 29 weeks pregnant with my second and i just love that i’m pregnant at the same time as you. 💓

  71. Katnay


    7 oy oldin

    What is the app that desi used to Olán the nursery, anyone know?

  72. kolim jone

    kolim jone

    7 oy oldin

    Steven running for that blanket killed me!!! 😂😂😂 He is AMAZING

  73. Stacie Corke

    Stacie Corke

    7 oy oldin

    Did anyone find out what app she is using??????????!

  74. MsSense


    7 oy oldin

    In the infertility community it’s very difficult to watch someone have their happy ending. UZtoprs forget their struggles and just bombard their infertility channels with baby stuff and baby talk. I find it to be insensitive

  75. bouytt guyt

    bouytt guyt

    7 oy oldin

    Omg I had never heard of ‘Dreft’ detergent so I googled the ingredients and WTFFFFF who would put that NEAR their baby!? 🤢🤢

    • kolim jone

      kolim jone

      7 oy oldin

      Your tatas are HUGE!! I miss mine like that haha, now they look like deflated balloons 😭😭

  76. Angie Mares

    Angie Mares

    7 oy oldin

    I need some help! What is that tablet she's using to design the nursery? I know it's not an iPad

    • lisbeth lua

      lisbeth lua

      7 oy oldin

      It’s an iPad Pro 12.9 inch

  77. Vanessa Chang

    Vanessa Chang

    7 oy oldin

    I’m prepared we are ready 😭😭❤️ So cute

  78. Jocelyn Salas

    Jocelyn Salas

    7 oy oldin

    The blanket pulling 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

    • bouytt guyt

      bouytt guyt

      7 oy oldin

      Do you guys have a P. O Box?

  79. Rochelle


    7 oy oldin

    That footage of you being dragged across the carpet 😂 aw bless you

  80. Genesis S.

    Genesis S.

    8 oy oldin

    Well Steven set the bar so damn high for dads to be with the blanket bathroom trip

  81. Kolour Gen

    Kolour Gen

    8 oy oldin

    🤣🤣🤣OMG! That footage of Steven dragging the blanket 🤣🤣🤣💕

  82. Yolanda Ambriz

    Yolanda Ambriz

    8 oy oldin

    Ohh how beautiful!

  83. Lea Mirabal

    Lea Mirabal

    8 oy oldin

    I literally pray to God for a partner like steven!!! I pray 😩 God i hope youre listening!!! 😩

  84. sehhi vooty

    sehhi vooty

    8 oy oldin

    Desi, what app are you using for your nursery mood board?

  85. Elizabeth Nelson

    Elizabeth Nelson

    8 oy oldin

    I honestly love that you got the whole family to do cpr course you’re the cutest! X

  86. Alexcia Sosa

    Alexcia Sosa

    8 oy oldin

    They are goals. I’m inspired. I wanna be just like desi, her whole aesthetic. I hope I find a husband as nurturing & kind as Steven. Ugh, they are so perfect together 🥺❤️

  87. hanna4292


    8 oy oldin

    thats my doughnut!!! LOL

  88. McKenzie


    8 oy oldin

    1. I hope to have a hubby & baby daddy that treats me and loves me the way steven treats and loves you!!! and 2. I peeped Hart of Dixie in the background! one of my favorite shows!!

    • sehhi vooty

      sehhi vooty

      8 oy oldin

      guys, and the best part, all the family was involved.

  89. miko foin

    miko foin

    8 oy oldin

    Doesn’t have a scent & no chemicals👍🏼 just trying to inform, love you guys!

  90. Carol KhamrinXO

    Carol KhamrinXO

    8 oy oldin

    Your tatas are HUGE!! I miss mine like that haha, now they look like deflated balloons 😭😭

  91. breanna corral

    breanna corral

    8 oy oldin

    Idr if you post these updates on mondays but ommmmmg I can’t wait for the next one 💞

  92. DaphneReloaded


    8 oy oldin


    • miko foin

      miko foin

      8 oy oldin

      to meet baby Perkins 💗

  93. Simona Neslanović

    Simona Neslanović

    8 oy oldin

    Do you guys have a P. O Box?

  94. Donivan F.

    Donivan F.

    8 oy oldin

    I don’t think there’s been an episode that hasn’t made me cry...keep me coming Perkins ❤️

  95. An Kusseler

    An Kusseler

    8 oy oldin

    I need myself a Steven

  96. MsDeonder


    8 oy oldin

    This is all so exciting and fun. Can't wait to be a new mama someday 😭

  97. Clementina1483


    8 oy oldin

    As I have to face very difficult things this year, watching you have such a good experience it gives me high hope that everything is going to change for good near. Love you see you happy and preparing for what is to come with your baby. Lots of love from Venezuela 🤗❤️🇻🇪

  98. JAE plus three

    JAE plus three

    8 oy oldin

    I am so over heels happy for you both. You both deserve this little bundle of joy so much. Can’t wait to see little baby!! ❤️❤️

  99. tatiana rivest

    tatiana rivest

    8 oy oldin

    Does anyone know what program she’s using for that nursery mood board?

  100. RoeTha Barbie

    RoeTha Barbie

    8 oy oldin

    Omg!!! So beautiful. What app did you use to create your mood board?